chinese love and marriage

   this morning.a friend from usa sent me a email.he told me.a girl in beijing wrote email to him.and want to marry him.yes.he told me that few days ago.but i never think he can buy ticket so early.he is upset for that very much.and said,the girl always asked to marry him.that give him a big pressure .yes.i can understand.but as a lady.i do think.no girl would like to marry a man who she never meet never understand.unless she wants another.such as immigrant .yes.i heard and read many story about that.some chinese girl married american.just for immigrant.not for love.once they go to usa.then.they leave the american..so bad! as a chinese woman.i am very shy for their action.

 the friend is a very kind guy.we change email every day.from his email.i find he almost is a dreamer.haha.i do admire his life. in nice autumn .to hunt in mountain...when he detailed his hunting in mountain.i do wish i can go too._.  

  so.i donot wish somebody hurt him.yes.i do wish all kind guys have a good life.happy and safe.chinese say: good guy should has good reward.right?

  there are something i cannot understand.that is: why some chinese girls would like to sell their love for some  behoof? would like to hurt another for their selfish? sometimes.i read some bbs on net about that.i found it is a so strange thing.chinese man always attack chinese woman for they marry foreigner.and chinese woman always blame chinese man isnot deserved to marry.what happy with these chinese? i donot blame man ,also donot blame woman.if the marriage is for love.we should respect

  i saw,heard and read many story ,in china.about a man once to be rich ,then.they start to betray marriage .i still saw,heard and read many story ,about a woman would like to give up love just for money or another advantage ,in their heart.what is love??????

  i am puzzling ....