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How to tell if a girl likes you


By Creative(54,965) Creative

Posted Saturday, November 10, 2007
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Now being female you’d think I’d have a pretty good take on this one wouldn’t you! Well I do and I don’t. Women can come across as sweet innocent and vulnerable when in reality they might be lean mean manipulating machines! Game players extraordinaire , and therein the problem lies. While some women may show classic signs of being in love, such as being very clingy and bombarding you with an endless stream of texts/emails and phone calls, there are others who play a much more cunning game and will do the exact opposite of what you might expect from someone who is interested in you.

The game may involve, NOT being available for you, not chasing and not accommodating your every whim. This game is supposed to make it more of chase for you and thus men being men, will be more interested if there is a chase rather than it being handed to them on a plate.

Game playing aside, let’s start at the beginning. What are the subtle signs a woman likes you? Assuming you have just met, this may involve a few of the following:

  • She’ll play with her hair
  • Touch her neck
  • Look at your lips
  • Blushing of course
  • Feet facing towards to you is good
  • She may wish to ‘dust’ you, removing imaginary specs from your clothing or hair
  • Getting jealous when other women show an interest in you
  • Informing you all other women are evil and up to no good
But that said, as this is 2007, they might just blatantly approach you, tell you how they feel and then attempt to drag you back to their lair (I mean room).
 
Cunning females may get their friends to do the groundwork for them to see if you are interested in them too. This can involve the friend just sounding you out or some elaborate scheme to get you to confess ‘which girl in the group’ you are attracted to. There is no end to the games that women can play, with you as the prize!

Myself, I offer no such clues. I usually lose the plot when in the presence of someone I have a deep crush on. I can’t make eye contact, try to severely restrict all outward signs of attraction and as a result become monosyllabic, unanimated (aside from lots of twitching) and just become an unattractive bumbling jabbering mess.

It’s much easier talking to people you don’t like…don’t you find?

To summarise:

How to tell if a woman likes you

  • She might tell you
  • She might mention marriage and kids and moving in very early on (if you hear this on a speed date, move on!!)
  • Wishing to take up all of your time
  • Flirting with you and subtly touching you
  • Getting her pals to talk to you
  • Feigning disinterest (tricky one as she may genuinely BE uninterested!)
  • Turning into a physical jabbering wreck when you approach
Good luck chaps!
 
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Comments on this blog post:

Creechman from Houston, Texas: (203 days 22 hours ago.)
Dang.

All I did was ask her out for ice cream.

John from Metaphysical: (202 days 18 hours ago.)
well that's cleared that up then all I have to do know the difference between women that are interested in me but ignore me so that i chase them, and woman that are not interested in me and ignore me, and I chase them and end up in a load of trouble!


CreativeFossil: (202 days 18 hours ago.)
lol, yep that sums it up ;)

My friend read a very dangerous book which taught her all the rules of game playing. I'll try to find out in what ways she manages to still convey 'interest' while remaining aloof.

J from Newyok: (193 days 22 hours ago.)
i had a friend i really care about and like, i would do anything for i gave her things to help her move for in life and she ask me for things to. but when i ask her to do things for me she ask me if i can do them my self and refuse to invite me to lunch with her and family when i help organize it.i got vex when she in invite another friend and notme so i think she using me so i end ht friendship in a stupid way by asking back for my thinks


Anonymous: (153 days 8 hours ago.)
I think if you engage in a lot of conversation with the person (for long enough) you will intuitively know. I know we have to consider shyness and other confounding variables but these really complicate things unnecessarily. And believe me.. if a person isn't interested you'll definately know. They are friendly and leave it at that. Girls will let you know if they are interested or not. I find that.. stay as friends.. and really know them. You won't need anyone or the internet (or some source requiring payment) to tell you if they are interested. We all have this ability and need to stop getting resource that will tell us what we want to hear.

Anonymous: (151 days 11 hours ago.)
I have a question. I agree with all you have to say. This girl that I'm talking to does everything you say a girl should do to a guy she's attracted to, especially the physical touching and the eye contact. But on the other hand, at times when we talk, she's always with "a friend", therefore she's busy. My question is if a girl can be so comfortable with her guy friends where intimate things like this can happen and still not have any attraction? Or is she smart and just taking it slow?

Comment by RJ (SoundScoop)(388) RJ (SoundScoop) (148 days 8 hours ago.)
this is very helpful, thank you!

Vinnie from FL: (118 days 17 hours ago.)
Hi umm this girl I dont know we stare at each other she flips her hair when she passes infront of me and sometimes smiles at me... Does this mean she likes me... We dont know each other.. We dont even have class together.. but we look at each other in class changes and lunch... please help.

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (118 days 17 hours ago.)
It does sound like she may like you, why don't you say hi? Start by saying hi, make that a habit and when you're more confident turn it into a conversation and take it from there.

Comment by Madison Petrello(2) (118 days 15 hours ago.)
CreativeFossil, I have a question on this topic that I need your opinion on. I would prefer though if you are able to email me at daxflammer@yahoo.com so that I can ask you it. Thanks!!!

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (118 days 6 hours ago.)
Sorry Madison, I don't give private advice.

John from Dallas: (117 days 10 hours ago.)
For a year now, I've known this girl. She would giggle at pretty much everything that I would say, even if I was not trying to be funny (I have to admit beforehand that I am usually a funny guy). I had one of her female friends ask if I liked that girl, and a male friend of hers say in class that he thinks that she likes me. I asked her out at the very end of the school year, and she told me that "she had just started kind of going out with someone". Anyways, this year in my first year of college, she has shared a class with me for two quarters and has sat right next to me every day. We spend most of the class talking (even before about personal stuff) and laughing. she even remembers where I work, and I only told her once or twice the previous year. She has a habit or crossing her legs near me, if I crack my knuckles she will act grossed out, make a comment and then crack her knuckles. I know that she has had a history of anxiety, and she is a shy, but friendly person. I am also a shy, but likable person. How do I know if she is just a flirt, or actually wants to date me? I don't want to ask her again and be rejected, unless I am fairly sure that she is not a flirt and that she is really interested in me. Also, we don't know each other's numbers, we are probably too nervous to ask each other that. Any help you are able to offer would be appreciated. Thanks!!!

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (117 days 2 hours ago.)
Hi John, she is showing all the signs she likes you, but you already asked her out and she told you she was seeing someone. You don't stop being attracted to people just because you are with someone else, especially when this young. I doubt she is aware she is flirting she just can't hide her attraction, but if she's seeing someone then the ball is in her court. It's up to you if you want to risk another knock back.

John from Dallas: (116 days 23 hours ago.)
Well, she is single now. I just found that out from someone though. It's just that she is so friendly with people that sometimes I wonder if she is just a flirt trying to boost her self confidence. She has treated me in my opinion different that her male friends. But, she talks to me WAY more than everyone else in that class. And she is writing a paper on a group home that she knows that I have had experience with in the past, and she talked about interviewing me.

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (116 days 22 hours ago.)
Hi John, then maybe you could suggest you go to a movie/dinner after the interview and see what she says. meanwhile be careful not to label her a flirt just for being friendly. It would be a miserable world if all women were not allowed to smile incase a man thought it was a come-on!

Derron Soogrim from Trinidad And Tobago: (111 days 17 hours ago.)
i like a girl five years now and just last year i started to talk to her. and i know she like me and i like she but all of a sudden she not talking to me but she saying she not vex with me. then why she not talking to me???? i really like she. help me. email me- derron_rudeboy@hotmail.com

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (111 days 4 hours ago.)
Hi Derron
If she's not talking to you, then maybe she senses you like her perhaps more than she likes you and she doesn't want to lead to you on. This is one possibility. There's not much you can do if she's reduced communication and you've already asked her why with not much response, except move on.

Massimo from Germany: (104 days 16 hours ago.)
hi what is if she doesnt pay attention to you i mean she pays attaention but she doesnt show it ... last week i was talking with her friends and she didnt look up to me or something like this i through she was nervous...

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (103 days 17 hours ago.)
It could mean anything. Maybe she doesn't like you or maybe she does and is nervous. It is impossible to know.

John from Dallas: (102 days 17 hours ago.)
UPDATE: I went to lunch with that girl, and we started talking. Somehow I really got off track in a conversation and I mentioned that I have quite a few dreams about movies, and she told me for some reason she has always had dreams about coworkers that she has worked with. Then she told me how when she used to work at McDonald's a while back, her manager and some customers (mainly Hispanic and I guess she does not like Hispanic people anymore because they stare) would hit on her and tell her that she has a nice butt. Then she told me about a couple of friends that we had in common she thought that she had a crush on her. Then she told me about how she used to have a crush on some guy who was a year behind us in High School a while back. Then the following class, she was messing around with her hair right next to me and took off her sweatshirt which she has never done before and asked for a piece of gum. Then when we went to the computer lab to do research, she would often look at what I was looking up on the internet and giggle. I don't know if her mentioning a past crush is her way of opening up to me and being honest like I was with her on my experience in a group home, or if it is her own little way of trying to feel superior. Plus, I don't know why she even mentioned the butt thing. Could you give me some insight. Thanks!!!

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (102 days 4 hours ago.)
Hi John from Dalla
from what you say, it sounds like she likes you.

John from Dallas: (99 days 16 hours ago.)
On Thursday, I received three calls on my cell from her in a twenty minute period after 10 PM that night. Each time that I would pick up though, she would hang up. So then I decided to call her back, and I told her that she called me a couple of times, and I asked "Do you need anything". She said "maybe". Then, she sounded all nervous in my opinion. Then she said to me "I have to ask you something", "Do you want to see a movie this Friday?" I said "sure", and I asked her "Which movie do you want to see?", and "what time would work best for you?". For each of those questions, she said "I don't know". Then there was a noise or a voice in the background, and she told me "I will call you tomorrow" and we both hung up. She did not call all that day, and I got worried. I called her at 9:00 PM and did not get an answer. I know she is shy and mentioned about anxiety, but I don't even know what just happened. Should I wait till our next class together to ask her (quarter is ending on Tuesday, and she has a VERY personal yearbook of mine), or should I call her back again? After all, I did call her the night before, with her not calling me back. I just don't want to appear as some sort of stalker, and I am hoping that she knows that I care about her because I called her when she did not call me back.

Andy Shapiro from Terraceville, Fl: (98 days 6 hours ago.)
Theres this girl in my class who sits in the far front. I sit in the far back. Just the other day she randomly turned around and smiled at me for no reason. Though, a few weeks earlier I asked to compare writing papers with her and she sat right next to me to read my paper. She liked it as well as I liked hers. We haven't talked much yet, let alone I hardly know anything about her. Does she like me or something? Is there a definite chance that she does? I want to know.

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (98 days 6 hours ago.)
Andy I am not a psychic. I would say she does like you, but whether that is as a friend or an actual attraction I can't say. You need to build on the friendship and talk to her some more.

John from Dallas: (97 days 14 hours ago.)
I really need your opinion on that incident because I am just stumped.

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (97 days ago.)
Hi John from Dallas, I did reply to you but it seems my message disappeared.

It's hard to know what is going on with this girl, she does seem to like you but at the same time is inconsitent.I think my last reply questioned whether she may have been under the influence of alcohol when she called and hung up as girls do this sometimes when they've had a drink. They get emotional and make calls the may not make when sober. I think you've done as much as you can do. The ball is her court. Meanwhile don't fall for someone who might mess you about. It's not worth it.



John from Dallas: (96 days 18 hours ago.)
I talked to her today, and she told me that she was busy on the weekend, and that last night she got in a car wreck and totaled her car. She acted depressed all though the class. I asked her if she had my yearbook, and she told me that she forgot it at her house. At the end of class, I asked if she wanted to go to a movie this weekend and she smiled and said "maybe". And I guess I either stuttered or phrased something wrong about having her return my yearbook when she could because she giggled. I was going to ask her to lunch, but her dad was waiting in the parking lot to pick her up from class.

Sam from Huston: (94 days 17 hours ago.)
hi creative fossil plez plez plez i would like to have ur opinion on this.
Ok the thing is that i have a crush on this girl and at first she use to stare at me alot and now all of a sudden she s acting like a shy person. I am shy myself so i couldnt go to her at first so i wanted to make some excuse to talk to her so i often use to take math notes from her as i wanted her to realize that i was intrested in her but now that excuse has gone old with time. So one day i sat next to her in my math class and talked to her. She was asking me questions and i could sense that she was intrested in me and she seemed shy. The thing is that if i dont start a conversation with her by myself she dont talk to me by herself. So can u tell me ' is that how shy girls react or do? And how can i find out if she has feelings for me without looking desperate for her? I mean should i wait for her to talk to me cause she dont as i mentioned. ..

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (92 days 15 hours ago.)
Sam, you're on your own with this I'm afraid. It's really hard to tell, she may just be being friendly and just shy around boys in general.

Ben from Houston: (91 days 16 hours ago.)
Hey, theres this girl i like who I work with that literally does everything you were saying a girl will do to a guy she likes (a lot of touching) and I recently found out from a few of the other people working there that she has been telling some of them that she thinks im hot and was asking if I'm single. After hearing this I decided to ask her to a movie and she said ok and messaged me in facebook asking which one and when so i told her we'd see one the next day (looking back that wasn't the greatest idea) she got the message about 30 mins before the movie started and we didnt end up seeing it that day so we decided to on friday. When friday came around she said that she was feeling depressed and didn't want to see a movie that day (I now know that she was probably playing hard to get). She apologized the next day and said we'd go to laser tag the next week to make up for it. On Thursday she said she told me to skip 2nd period to go out to lunch so we did, not much happened that day she did a lot of the hair flicking thing though. the next 2 days after that we went to our work and got some coffees together and I would drive her to school. On Thursday she told me that something happened and she got grounded for a week and wouldn't be able to go laser tagging unless she wrote a 200 word essay for her parents. She was asking why she should write the essay and in the end I ended up convincing her to write it and we went to laser tag that friday where she could not stay off of me and stop talking to me or leaning on me. She said that she was gonna get grounded for being out so long so the next day I apologized and she said that when she got home her mom saw that she was so happy she couldn't ground her. The next day at work I found out that she told everybody and she texted me and said everyone thinks we are going out because of the laser tag I laughed and she said it wasn't funny (jokingly I thought) she was saying I don't get it which I thought (actually I had planned in advance that she'd say that) was a good time to actually ask her out. She kept asking me if I was serious because I joke around a lot with her and I kind of said it in a way that she could misinterpret so I could have a fall back plan if she said no. so she finally got me to say "yes i am asking you out" (after about 2 hours of trying) after I said that she said I don't know what to say or what words to use, I said say yes or no, she said I duno i'm sorry and told me she had to go. I was blown away! I don't know why she said that, she really seems into me and even told me she likes me but shes not sure if I like her, and even asked me to her prom. I could have sworn she'd say yes from the way she was always acting around me she texts me a lot too, like over 100 times a day. She asked me to meet her for coffee tomorrow morning before school (we go to different schools). Any idea whats going on? Is she trying to not be easy? or is she uninterested which I find kind of strange because she was asking around if i was single before. Should I give it a few days and try again? thanks for the help

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (91 days 14 hours ago.)
Ben, I could be wrong but depending on what her past dating experience has been, she might be wondering why you haven't tried to put your arm around her or kiss her, hence her uncertainty about whether you see her as a girlfriend or just a friend.

She is likely to get huffy if she feels the need to prompt you to ask her out, you guys are meant to come up with that youreself right! ;)

Perhaps when you see her tomorrow, tell her you'd like to take her 'on a date'?

If she knocks you back, then maybe she's just got too much going on with her parents and school to know what she wants.

Good luck!



Rolley from Boston: (89 days 16 hours ago.)
Ok here's the deal, gonna give you all the info so you can make a informed answer; I am the funny guy in school never really dated anyone, I am a jock play every sport and I dress kinda prep or jocky, I am not shy by any means I will go up and talk to strangers and alot of girls like me ( not bragging ) but I dont wanna just settle for someone I just wanna wait for the right person, and I like this girl but I DO get shy and it's hard to come up with somthing to say to her, strange to me cuz this has never happened to me before ( coming from the guy that is the class leader ) This girl is like the the girl all the guys want in the school but none of them talk to her because she is so so so beautiful. I have KNOWN who she is for a few years but now I have a class with her and with me being funny I have caught her attention and I have started to talk to her a little..nothing too deep just small talk we make direct eye contact in the halls when passing and in the parking lot today I kinda called out to her " HEY BEAUTIFUL!! HOW WAS YOUR DAY?? " she walked over to me ( while ) saying " it was great " she kinda stood side ways and we kinda met hips and she turned in and hugged me??? yeah she hugged me..!!! I am not 100% sure what this means and the small talk continued.. and then she was going to leave and she HUGGED ME AGAIN!!! I mean I never thought I would have any chance with her she was just kinda on the DREAM LIST I think she likes me I unno but can you vouge for me and also tell me what the next step is if she does?? thanks Fossil

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (89 days 15 hours ago.)
Rolley, this sounds very exciting. First of all don't avoid being your regular self with her just because she's attractive. So many of you guys do this and what you need to understand is that we women nearly never see ourselves quite that way (always worried about some flaw or other) but also, where does it get you? He who dares wins and all that!

Meanwhile, just because she is attractive doesn't mean she's the 'one' either. There is more to a good relationship than looks.

Moving on, her touching you is definately a good sign. See how this friendship develops, if she gets more touchy feely and starts dropping hints, then ask her out.

The worst thing that'll happen is she'll say no, but she may say yes. If she says no, perhaps say, 'ok well maybe another time' then change the subject so it's not an uncomfortable moment.

Good luck!



Rolley from Boston: (89 days 15 hours ago.)
yeah I understand that "the one" thing it's just in high school these day people just "go out" with anyone at any time just to say they have a girl friend or boy friend, and I dont wanna settle BUT this small talk has had me time to realize this girl not only looks attractive but she has what I have been looking for on the inside too! yes it is exciting! lol, but yeah thank you so much for the advise FOSSIL your the best.

Rolley from Boston: (87 days 16 hours ago.)
Ok little update for you fossil and a question; You said if she gets more touchy feely...I get that, we are hugging almost every time we see each other the small talk has turned into more deeper convos and a few people around the school have started asking questions like when one of my dude friends see us hug he will come up and say " yo bro what was that?!? " The hugs arnt just the casual hugs either really close and long hugs with her or I talking a bit ( that was the update ) The question is what are the "hints" you speak of? I wouldnt be able to tell a hint if it hit me in the face.
Thanks Fossil

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (87 days 14 hours ago.)
Hi Rolley, Good to hear this is progressing nicely.

Hints like, she might ask you if there are any girls you're interested in, what type of girls you like, what you are doing at the weekend, then when you say, she might go quiet in anticipation of you asking her out. She might even be bold and ask you outright what you think of her, as a person as a friend etc.

Is she huggy like this with everyone?

Derek Mayfield from Houston, TX: (87 days 11 hours ago.)
Ok. so theres this girl in my social studies class. there was a rumor in the girls locker room that i liked her and after that she got my SN and started to talk to me alot online. it has been 3 months since then and i still talk to her. today, she forgot her folder and i told her she can share mine if she wants and she said sure and when i would do the work she would look at me for a second. i caught this about 3-4 times. and she always smiles when i talk. is she acting overly nice? i never asked her out because i always thought it was too soon. i like her, do you8 think she likes me back?

Rolley from Boston: (87 days 10 hours ago.)
I have only seen her hug one other guy in this whole week or two this has been going on and that guy was gay... ( no kidding )Oh another Update; today after school I went up to the gas station to get some gas.. and I went in to pay as I walked out a got a few steps and I she yelled my name and ran up to me and jumped on me and I caught her in my arms ( apprently she pulled up as I was going in.. This incident in my mind is a good thing..correct me if I am wrong )but back to the hints again...I dont think she is the girl that would ask questions like that "What girls are you interested in" ..I mean she is bold but again if one of her friends asked me what I thought of her the only real answer I would have would be "who dosnt" remeber the girl is kinda on all the dudes dream list..
Thanks Fossil

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (86 days 17 hours ago.)
Hi Rolley
You know it's funny you mentioned the gay guy, as I was almost gonna suggest in my last post (but didn't as thought you'd be offended) that there was a small possibility she might think you're gay. So to clear that matter up, you may need to mention some interest in a female icon (actress) someone not 'real' so as to be a threat to her.

If that's not it, then sure she liked you!

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (86 days 17 hours ago.)
Hi Derek, it seems like she likes you, especially as she's giving you furtive glances!!

Rolley from Boston: (86 days 16 hours ago.)
Hello again Fossil sorry for taking over your blog but I am going to give you a update after everyday if that is ok?
Ok today..before school started walking to first block saw her and came up behind her and put my arms around her neck/shoulder ( a back hug ) she turns around with a smile and I walk her to her 1st block..after that going to second block she shows up again...hug and walk...going to 3rd block he SHOWS UP again lol ..hugs and I walk with her to her locker I lean up again the next locker and we talk a bit and I put my arm around her shoulder and she wraps her arm around my waist and we walk to her 4th block with a hug ending it. Is it just me or is it normal for her to show up near me after every block...?? Ok in the parking lot I am sitting to let the car warm up she comes up and opens my door and gets in with a little small talk she goes threw my wallet with a almost kiss he hug and we get out another hug and while hugging I ask her what she is doing this weekend she said she has a competition all weekend..I ask a little about it ahd then I say {"well..I was going to ask you to come and go do somthing fun with me but I am going out of town as well (I really am going out of town but I think it was the best fall back, and the right time)...but if you wanna give me your number so I can bug you somtime"...she was like "Oh yeah sure definatly" and BOOM got the didgits!!!....ok now I am really lost what do I do? lol? She didnt really reject me and I got the number good right?

Rolley from Boston: (86 days 16 hours ago.)
Oh and LOL she KNOWS I am not gay int he small talk I have said a few things about her...( you know what I mean?)

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (86 days 15 hours ago.)
Hi Rolley

You need to ring her pronto is what you do and fix a date. When you get a girls number you cannot hang on to it too long without calling as she'll think you're not interested. Meanwhile she is already sitting by the phone waiting for your call, so call her!!

Rolley from Boston: (86 days 12 hours ago.)
well as I said in one of my above posts she said she had a competition this weekend and I am going out of town for the weekend so I mean I dunno what to do..lol

Belle from Colorado: (86 days 9 hours ago.)
Hello, Ms. Creative Fossil. I've read through your Q & A here a bit, and I would absolutely love to ask you about something going on my frivolous little love life :) The catch: I'm a girl, and my question is about a guy. From what I've read though, you give sound, clear headed advice, and I would love to get a woman's opinion on the matter from an impartial party. If you don't do girl-to-girl advise as a rule, I understand. But I figured I'd at least ask, and see what you think! :)

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (86 days 4 hours ago.)
Hi Belle, I'll do my best! I think I have a blog somehwere about how to tell if a man likes you, but you are free to post here. I'll see it!

Meanwhile Rolley, you can phone her re a date next week or just a chat, don't sit on that number! If she likes you, she's going crazy waiting for you to call her. We women really DO sit by the phone, or now they are mobile, carry them in our hands incase we miss a ring!....*not me though...cough cough wink*

Derek Mayfield from Houston, TX: (86 days ago.)
oh yea, and she would always stretch er sumthing and say im sooo tired. plus, when she forgot her folder, we were doing group work and i said she could share my packet if she wants, cuz she was just sitting ther doing nothing for like, 2 minutes. and the day after that, she didnt even TALK to me. well, she usually doesnt talk to me if i dont talk to her. she mite be shy, because she is actually a quiet person. o yea, and a week before that, in the weight room, there is a ddr machine. i said michelle, sign us up lol. and she said ok and smiled. and she never did.... and it wasnt a sarcastic smile, its the same smile that she gives me when i talk, like im glad taht ur here. but if i dont talk to her in a while, she starts the conversation. well, thats it. how do i get more fluent with her? plus, do u think she likes me still?

William from Middleburg FL: (85 days 23 hours ago.)
Hi, I'm a high school senior. Just recently I met a girl that was in my gym class. She has been there all semester but only two weeks ago did we actually start to talk. I told one of my friends about her, and she said she knew her in 8th grade. From what my friend said, shes apparently a little bit of a whore. The girl I like(who I will call, E) apparently had a little crush on this other guy in our gym period. When I talked to E about it she said that they wern't really going out, and she isnt looking for a guy she wants to date, only a guy she can really talk to. Just yesterday, me and her talked the whole entire gym period. We talked about a lot of stuff. She even told me a supposed secret. She would sit at first a little close to me, and then scoot closer. She would even tell me a story that happened between her and one of her friends, and if the story involved any kind of touching, then she would touch me on the shoulder. She would usually look at me while she was talking, and I would almost be sure she liked me if it wasn't for the comment my friend made about her being a whore. Anyways, continuing on, her and I both smoke ciggarets, and after class was done I told her I was going to go smoke one. She asked to come along, and I said "Sure." We stood in a secreative spot smoking, because we are not aloud to be smoking at school. After we were done I told her what my friend said about her, and she apparently knew who I was talking about. She wanted to see the girl for her self though, just to make sure. So for the first time ever she followed me into lunch and sat with me at the lunch table, next to my friend who was talking bad about her. Now E, nor my friend made any kind of verbal or physical contact, but E said she was angry at her and might say something on Monday. Well, from the other things I said about her, besides the point of the whole "Whore" comment, can you infer anything about it? Do you think from the way she acts toward me that she might like me? Any information you can provide me would be nice. Even information that would help to prevent E from confronting my friend on Monday.

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (85 days 20 hours ago.)
Derek - hard to tell, it seems like you're doing all the running.

William, your friend fancies you that's for sure. She's running down her competition! As for 'E' she told you she doesn't want to date just find someone to talk to. So she does like you, but as a friend or bf..hard to tell. See if she changes her mind re the talk and no date thing!

William from Middleburg FL: (85 days 17 hours ago.)
Thank you. I will see how things turn out on Monday when she confronts my other friend. I have a feeling its not going to turn out so good. I should of never said anything, haha.

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (85 days 16 hours ago.)
William, I get the feeling you rather like the idea of women fighting over you, but this could turn out rather unpleasantly for the girls and for you. My advice would be to try to deter E from saying anything.

You could otherwise lose the friendship of both grils over this, definately the one who made the comments. She trusted you. A woman scorned and all that...could have unpleasant repercussions.

Start digging...... :)

William from Middleburg FL: (85 days 16 hours ago.)
Yes, it crossed my mine more then once. Its just that 'E' is so determined to confront her about the topic. I dont want to have girls fighting over me, because I would be lucky enough to just have a girl period. Yet I would find some sort of satisfaction it it. In some way I want to find out how the conversation between the two of them go. I want to know the truth, because I dont want to get in a relationship with 'E', and then find out she really is easy, and a week later she breaks up with me. Hehe, maybe I should just not go to school Monday. Nah, I will go, and I will try my best to lure 'E' away from my friend. Thank you again. I just needed someone to talk to about this, and someone that would actualley listen and give real advice. Doing this gives me a little more confidence. :)

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (85 days 14 hours ago.)
William, you're welcome. Good luck!

William from Middleburg FL: (83 days 19 hours ago.)
Hi, its me again. I can only come back bearing bad news. I was in another class today, and I was talking to one of my friends about E, and he said that he knew her. He said that she always hugs him, and is a big flirt. He also said that she was going out with this one guy. In gym I went to talk to her, and she told me to sit down next to her. I declined her offer, and stayed standing. Then she said, "Its ok, me and Michael arn't going out", so I decided to sit with her. We talked for a few minutes, and then I went to go sit next to one of my other friends. A few minutes later she was sitting next to the guy she said she wasnt going out with, and she was kissing him. I was so @#$@#&*ed. I didnt do anything, but decided to take some advice a friend gave me, and to just stay away from her. Should I not talk to her anymore? Or should I keep trying with her?

Rolley from Boston: (83 days 14 hours ago.)
Hey again Fossil, just coming in to submit bad news. A few days before me and this girl started talking she started dating a guy.. The reason I didnt know this is because this guy graduated last year so he was not in school... So it has been all for nothing I am afraid to say.. But I did take your advise and I did call her and we did see each other on a little get together a the near shopping center. But all for nothing right? I mean what can I do? Either be bummed out go find another fish in the sea or wait right? She is like off limits correct?

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (83 days 3 hours ago.)
William, it seems your female pal was right and you betrayed her trust by telling E. My advice is give E a wide birth. Imagine how her bf feels with her carrying on like this behind his back, that could be you! Why bother?

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (83 days 3 hours ago.)
ROlley, it's hard to know. Does this girl know you want to date her or has she got you pegged as 'the friend'?

Also how come you found out about this guy just now? All seems a bit odd. I'd back off a bit and let her chase you from now on!

Rolley from Boston: (82 days 15 hours ago.)
Yeah I just found out just now because she never mentioned him to me.. I am almost 100% sure she dosnt have me tagged in the friend zone, there is JUST no way, I mean I am not too smart of the whole subject but I am sure not stupid. So let her chase me? Not sure how to do this.. I wait for her to say hey or hi or initiat the conversations? instead of me walking up to her let her walk up to me? Any Tips on the whole "make her chase you"

Derek Mayfield from Houston, TX: (82 days 15 hours ago.)
ok, so today with teh same girl, michelle, i was talkin to her. this guy asked her out who is a good friend of mine, and i was almost sure shed say yes, cuz a LOT of girls like him, and she hasnt talked to him for 2 days, since the day he asked her out. and iv been talking to her more. i said, yuo should just tell him no if u havnt given him in answer in 2 days, and she said she still doesnt know. now, shes been looking at me more than ever and wenever she does, and i catch it, we both smile but its a suttle smile. and they hav been furtive. shuold i actually go for it? plus wen i asked her why she hasnt answerd, she said she mite like other people. and i asked who, and she said idk. could one of them be me? plus, is it true that girls tend to show off their boobs when they talk to a guy up close cuz she does that a lot. plus, she was touching her hair and fixing it, which i heard was a sign she mite like me too. and she still has no clue that im attracted to her in any way

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (82 days 15 hours ago.)
Hi Rolley
yes, say hi if she sees you and waves etc, but from a distance and let her walk up to you. She'll suss something is up and you can always say, well you have a bf, so I'm keeping my distance also hint that you like someone else, or be seen to be talking to other girls etc. Did you read my article on how to get girls to like you? I think this stuff is in that article. Have a scroll through links on this site if not it might be on my other blog sites accessible via www.creative-blogger.com

In the meantime, see if you can find another flower to shower attention on ;)

ROlley from Boston: (82 days 14 hours ago.)
But see what I dont get is, is that if I give a hint I like someone else or somthing like that then she would have reason to cut it off with her current Boyfriend if she knew I was taken or interested in anyone else... am I right in any way here or what?

Rolley from Boston: (82 days 14 hours ago.)
TYPO: If she knew I was taken or insterested in anyone else then she WOULDNT have any reason to cut it off with her current BoyFriend.

Derek Mayfield from Houston: (82 days 14 hours ago.)
u didnt answer my questions. lol sry for bein such a bothr. here it is again. ok, so today with teh same girl, michelle, i was talkin to her. this guy asked her out who is a good friend of mine, and i was almost sure shed say yes, cuz a LOT of girls like him, and she hasnt talked to him for 2 days, since the day he asked her out. and iv been talking to her more. i said, yuo should just tell him no if u havnt given him in answer in 2 days, and she said she still doesnt know. now, shes been looking at me more than ever and wenever she does, and i catch it, we both smile but its a suttle smile. and they hav been furtive. shuold i actually go for it? plus wen i asked her why she hasnt answerd, she said she mite like other people. and i asked who, and she said idk. could one of them be me? plus, is it true that girls tend to show off their boobs when they talk to a guy up close cuz she does that a lot. plus, she was touching her hair and fixing it, which i heard was a sign she mite like me too. and she still has no clue that im attracted to her in any way

William from Middleburg FL: (81 days 19 hours ago.)
Me again :) I was talking to E this morning, and she told me that she and her boyfriend broke up. Actualley her boyfriend broke up with her. He said that she was to affectionate. She didnt seem depressed about it or anything, but my question to the dating guru is......How long should I wait before I try to make a move on her (Ask her out?)

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (81 days 16 hours ago.)
William, Rolley and Derek! (I shall try not to lose track of who is who)

Rolley, she will find you more attractive if she knows other women are interested in you, so play up to that.

William make a move before someone else does.

Derek - make your move, sounds like she's waiting for you to!

Derek

Massimo from Germany: (81 days 14 hours ago.)
There is a girl in my class i sit next to her and last wekk we went on a well not realy a date...because my friend was there with his girlfriend and 2 other girl so we looked that movie and i was sittign next to her and when the two in the movie kissen she played with her hair and touched her neck and so on an at school she writes my name on rubbers...but she dont realy talk much with me she talks with my friends meaby she is interested in my friend O.o?? i dont knwo i am disperated help!!

Brandon from Ohio: (81 days 12 hours ago.)
Theres thsi girl ive been talking to for about 3 months now and she talks to me on aim for hours on end everyday i dont really see her much at school but when we do talk she always smiles and giggles and tries to trip me and such and she wants me to go over to her friends house to hang out with her this weekend. also today she asked me a bunch of questions about if she died what would i want her to kno before she died and what questions id want to ask her before she dies it was a survey kind of thing and i asked her what she would wish to say something to me before i died and this was he answer "your half the reason i get online. because i like talking to you haha. i have no other friends. i mean theres autumn and mercedes. but autumn never gets on and merr is crippled " do you think she jus likes me as a friend?

Brandon from Ohio: (81 days 12 hours ago.)
right after i posted look what went down

Brandon (8:49:14 PM): true feelings towards me?
lindsie (8:49:58 PM): hhmm haha
Brandon (8:50:10 PM): dont gotta answer it if u dont wanna
Brandon (8:50:12 PM): but u should
lindsie (8:51:08 PM): well obviously i must be interested in you if i spend my days on here haha



=)


Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (81 days ago.)
Brandon, clearly she's interested :) ask her out.

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (81 days ago.)
Massimo!

If she writes your name on her staitonary then yes she likes you more than a friend (in my opinion) I used to do this at school and so did my mates but only for guys we had a crush on.

Massimo from Germany: (81 days ago.)
but she only did it once on my rubber...and then at the day from the movie we all went to the train but it arrives later 10 min so i and my friend sit down on a bench and then the girl i like arrived and sit 2 places next to my friend ...next from me was one place free...anyway my friend has a girlfriend and the girl had a talk with my friend about his girlfirend the girl asked question like why didnt u buy a present for her why do u steal money from her and so on... and she didnt speak with me or looked at my meaby once or twice but if i didnt say she wouldnt have spoke with me ...so

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (80 days 20 hours ago.)
Massimo, maybe she likes your friend then?

Massimo from Germany: (80 days 19 hours ago.)
i dont know thats why i ask help ^^...meaby she wants to help his friend so that her boyfriend will treat her right or meaby she likes him but he has a girlfriend ...hm to tell the truth i understand people very good (womens too) so i only wanted a tip from some experts...

Kyle from Pittsburgh PA: (80 days 17 hours ago.)
k so theres this girl who I've been talking to for about 3 weeks. She seems interested and always wants to hang out, but when i bring up a specific day to hang out she always says she's busy. I don't know if she just doesn't want to say no or is playing "hard to get". Plz help

Derek from Houston: (80 days 17 hours ago.)
i asked my friend to ask michelle who she likes, and my friend is a girl. and she said doesnt like me. but i guess i shudnt mad at all. should i still go for it or should i just give up, cuz im kinda tired of planning out what i shud do with her. o ya, i heard she has a crush on some other guy

POPE from ANYWHERE: (80 days 15 hours ago.)
id give up on her if she doesn't like you cuz then you won't get anywhere with her. Plus if she like another guy she might use you to make him jealous. but idk

Dan from Pittsburgh: (75 days 18 hours ago.)
OK so there is this girl i am talking to and i asked if she would want to hang out and she said yes, but every time i come up with a specific date she says she is busy and shes been saying that for a few weeks now. I like her, but all my friends said she could just be messing with me. I asked her if she truly wanted to hang out or if she was just jokeing with me and she said she wants to. so idk what to do im kind of thinking of giving up at this point. any thoughts?

William from Middleburg FL: (73 days 12 hours ago.)
Hey, I know you comment on how to tell if a girl likes you, but I was curious if you could tell me how I'm able to tell the girl I'm with is being honest. The girl I talked to you about a few weeks back (E) is my girlfriend now. You were right she did like me. She was dumped by her other boyfriend, and she statred talking to me, and flirting with me more. She told me that she thought I was cute, attractive, and hot....etc. My problem is, that she keeps bringing up her old boyfriend, the one that dumped her. She calls him a a-hole, and talks bad about him, but I get the impression that she is just trying to cover up her feeling that she still has for him. I fear that she is using me to fall back on, either to try and make him jealous, or to just forget about him all together. In either case though, I would like her to be with me because she wants to be, not beacuse she is trying to get rid of her old feelings. I tried to be compasionate, and understanding, and hoped that soon she wouldnt mention another word about him, but that does not seem to be the case. I even told her "I hope you are not using me to fall back on because of your ex-boyfriend." She wouldnt even say no, she would just nod her head softly and barely make it noticeable. Now obviously I am being irrational on my part in some way or another, but I am curious if you have any information that might help me in my predicament. I need to know if I'm some guy for her to fall back on. Do you know how I can find out?



I just dont want to get to far along and realize I'm just some pawn.

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (73 days 11 hours ago.)
Hi William, this is tricky, best way to tell is see how she when her bf is around. Does she show u more affection or less? Mind u that said either could mean she is still hung up on him.

She may be on the rebound, but only time will tell. Tell her nicely you don't like her talking about her ex, she's with u now and hopefully things will move on. If someone did come out of bad relationship they may go on about it for a while, it's normal.

See how things go, she may be on rebound but still prefer u in the end!

Good luck and well done.

Derek from Houston, TX: (64 days 10 hours ago.)
if a girl says you are hot once she sees you, and you are both the same age, does that mean she is interested in you? a girl said that to me a couple days ago while i was at a party, and i didnt know what to say back.

Marvin from Germany: (63 days 18 hours ago.)
hi
there is a girl she like me and she has a boyfriend my best friend... and she comes every time near my (near my mouth) and in school shes allways with me and touch me etc... i dont knwo if she think of me only in the friends zone or other...(sry i am bad at english)

Curious from California: (63 days 16 hours ago.)
I met this girl we talked on the phone for 3 hrs straight.
the next day we went out she said she had to pick her sister up at 5:00 pm it was already 1:30. so going to the zoo was out of the question so then i asked her if were she likes to eat she said mcdonalds (weird for first date).We were there for two hours and 30 min. talking. I then took her home later that day i called her to say thanks and it was so much fun talking with. She told me she had to go to the bathroom and shed call back. she never did next day i checked my phoneand had a missed call from her at 10:49 pm from last night the next day later on i called and no one answered finally at 9:30 pm she called and i was asleep and was out of it. I apologized for sounding all weird and told her to give me call when ever she wanted(putting the ball in her court) she hasnt called what should i do?

Shannon from Canton ga: (62 days 11 hours ago.)
What if a girl tells you to wait two years she says she has to finish college first

Answer from Nowhere: (61 days 21 hours ago.)
then get another one or two or three.... till 2 years have passed ;-)

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (57 days 16 hours ago.)
Jason I removed your post as you'll get a ton of spam bots if you publicise your email address ;)

Meanwhile I am finding it hard to answer these queries at the moment due to other work committments, but if you post your query anonymously, someone else might answer it for you. Sorry J and all the other guys I haven't got back to!

Josh from PA: (56 days 15 hours ago.)
i have a question about this girl, she talks to me a little bit every day (says hi to me etc.) and im not sure if she likes me. there was this one time she randomly walked up to me and was like omg you (bleep) and i was like eh...what? then she starts bursting out laughing and says, im kidding!! i thought you would flip out and be like oh my god she hates me!! can you tell me if this means anything cause im really confused

Comment by skinks(1) (56 days 9 hours ago.)
yeah so im not sure if this girl likes me, but everyday after school we have practice together. its hard to talk to her because shes always with her group of friends, but sometimes when i walk by her she will start to playfully hit my arm. she also really seems to pay attention if i try to spark a little conversation with her.I think she seems a little nervous around me to becasue she will look at me but then quickly look away. im not usually shy around girls because i can usually make people laugh but it seems that i get nervous when im around her. im just not sure what to do, or even if she likes me.

Anonymous: (55 days 11 hours ago.)
there is this girl i have a crush on, but i dont know if she really likes me... I have cought her looking at me twice, but she is shy, and never really talks to me. When i talk to her, i often see her legs pointing at me.. Sometimes she ignores me. So please help!!! I don't know if she likes me or not...




Jason from United Kingdom: (53 days 19 hours ago.)
Hey Fossil
There's this girl. I have a crush on her but so does my friend. I've never talked to her and she is shy but when we were in the computer lab she said 'I want to sit here', which was next to me, and then she couldnt and looked sad. I've caught her looking at me a few times but when my friend says stuff sometimes she insults him and that, but other times...

Bob from Peoria IL: (53 days 5 hours ago.)

Theres this really cute girl that sits next to me in class. When I look at the clock I notice that sometimes she is looking towards me and the other day I had to sit on the other side of the room and noticed that she was looking over her sholder, another thing that I have felt during the school year is the feeling that someone been looking at me. The other day I asked her how her weekend was and her voice sounded a little differnt than when she talkes to other people in the class and when she talks to other girls in that class her face is aways red. I am just wanting someone elses oppion on this. Not sure if she likes me or any thing. Thinks

Jason from United Kingdom: (52 days 21 hours ago.)
Hey Fossil
Update: Today at lunch her friends kept on looking at me but she never looked at me... well I never saw her anyway.
Thanks for help

David from Mobile, Al.: (50 days 21 hours ago.)

Hey Fossil, there's this girl that I really like. And from what I've heard, she likes me back. But, I can't exactly believe everything people tell me y'know? So, here's the thing. We talk alot over the phone, we text message each other alot. In fact...when she had her cell, she would wake me up every morning with a text. But, every morning (at school), she sits with me, and I sort of go where she goes, 'cause I enjoy hangin' out with her and her friends. But....sometimes she ignores me, and sometimes she gets mad at me easily...and I never know the line between when she's actually mad and when she's playing. She likes to play around a lot. Problem is, she's a bit of a tease. At first, I thought she just acts a certain way around me because she likes me. But after some observation, it seems she acts like that around other guys too. Yesterday...on a choral trip for honor choir, we were headed back home, and it was dark. She was sleepy, and she had already decided at the beginning of the trip to sit with me on the way back home. So.....she was laying down, propping her legs on me, or leaning against me. A possible sign? So...what do you think, Fossil?

Comment by Creative(54,965) Creative (50 days 3 hours ago.)
Guys I don't have time to answer all your queries here but I have a great new eBook which may help you and answer your queries. Visit my home page (accessible via profile here) or www.creative-blogger.com and go to the eBook page for your two free eBooks on dating and relationships. I hope they help! Meanwhile join my mailing list at that site and when I have more advice and tips I'll send them on to you! Good luck.

Dan from United Kingdom: (43 days 16 hours ago.)
Hi, I started my dream job last year and there is a girl who works there which I really like. I found out she had a boyfriend and thought nothing of it. At the christmas party I mentioned him and she said he had split up with him. We were having a great time all night but I didnt make a move as she had only just split up. Time has gone on and we get on great and I cant stop thinking about her, 24 hours a day. We have just moved into a flat together near work as she has moved from home to be near work and we thought it would be a good idea to share a flat for costs and because we know each other. Since doing this we are even closer, we watch films together, have drinks etc. She keeps saying "ill have to find you a girlfriend, id love to see you with someone" This breaks my heart a little as I really want to be with her. I dont know if I should ask her on a date and risk our friend ship or ask and we would be together! Any advice would be great!!

Thanks,
Dan from United Kingdom..

Someone: (41 days 16 hours ago.)
OMG Dan i have an idea, when she says "ill have to find you a girlfriend" say "you don't have to..i was wondering if you would like to be mine." Idk if that is to cheesy for you but i thought it was nice. Maybe she would think that is cute or something..i don't know but whatever you do don't push it to fast!

peace&love

Someone: (41 days 16 hours ago.)
OMG Dan i have an idea, when she says "ill have to find you a girlfriend" say "you don't have to..i was wondering if you would like to be mine." Idk if that is to cheesy for you but i thought it was nice. Maybe she would think that is cute or something..i don't know but whatever you do don't push it to fast!

peace&love

Someone: (41 days 16 hours ago.)
Hey everyone!
there is this boy..and he is really cute i want to talk to him but i am too shy. we don't have any classes together except for homeroom(in school)..and he sits far away from me. How can i talk to him?? HELP ME!

p.S. i don't care if its kinda weird just ..i am free for any comments! oh..and i think he knows i like him :/

peace&love

Unsure from Canada: (35 days 23 hours ago.)
Hi All,
ive known this girl at work for over 3 years now. we were really close at work. there was a lot of playing around touching n shoving (non sexual). she even bought me stuff that she knew i liked. one day i didnt call her to tell her that an office outing was cancelled and she got mad at me. a week later i gave her a choc n a fancy case and she refused it. for 2 weeks after she ignored me. then she started talking to me voluntairly. she is very friendly one day and appears aloof another day. there is a twist to this story. she had a bf who left suddenly for like 6 months and recently returned. there is no evidence that they are going out again. does this girl like me, is she playing games to see if i really like her or is she plain gives a @#$%&* about me. please advice...im so totally confused

William from Middleburg FL: (35 days 11 hours ago.)
Hi, I asked for your oppinon a few months back. Anyways, I went out with this girl (E). She broke up with me after only a week. She gave me the reason as to, she just wants to be friends. Now after a little more then a month of being her friend, she said she likes me more then she ever has. She told me she likes me, and calls me hot and attractive every now and then. Also a week ago, she leaned over and we made out a little. That has already happened a couple of times. She calls me her best friend, and she doesnt want to put a label on what it is that we have going on. I dont know what to do though. I want to be able to go out with her, we act just like a couple, and that should be enough for me. The thing is, what if I see her kissing another guy, and then I confront her about it? She could just easily say, "we arnt even going out", and i wouldnt want that because that just leads to embarassment. What do you think of my situation, and what should I do? am i over thinking this?

Donovan from Singapore: (33 days 19 hours ago.)
Hi.. i have a slight problem with this gal that im interested in, she used to be my colleague, but has since resigned and got another job. when she was still working together with me, other colleagues would be teasing us, as they know that i'm interested in her. she would also catch me lookin her way during work and same for me too, i would spot her lookin my way too. but things got more intense recently, about 2 mths she left the job, she had asked me for my email address and things picked up from there...we've been texting & emailing each other everyday, and we can be texting each other all the way until bed time. i have just asked her out for movies but she kind of rejected me and said that she may have to work overtime on the day and perhaps its a real coincidence that its a last day of the month and shes an account assistant and she will be busy closing accounts...so im not really sure of my next step.... i am hoping that i get some sound advice...

Tyler Smith: (27 days 11 hours ago.)
Theres this one girl in my class. Everyday we talk about things and tease eachother. Sometimes we make joke bout eachother. We feel pretty comfortalbe around eachother and we get along well. She puts her legs on the side of my desk everyday and just rests them there. One time she asked to try on my cool shades and I let her. She says I look like a fly in those shades but i no its just a joke.

Mohamed from Nairobi -kenya: (27 days 5 hours ago.)
there is one girl she was standry6 also i was in standary 8 she love me the she see me she lough with me and i was not iterested that bacouse i don`t know if love one day she was tell me why don`t understand ? what would you tell her???????????

Nicholas from New York: (16 days 9 hours ago.)
Well im sure your busy but...the other day me and my friends were eating lunch and my friend (female) that is sits a few feet away from me and my friend (she comes to visit occasionaly) as she is there she tells how she missed us (even though we have the same lunch period every she usualy only see's us there except in orchestra...) anyways i origonaly had my arms folded then she say our names to see if she rememberd us i unfold my arms and cup my hands as she says our names she says how we are to her

Nicholas from New York: (16 days 9 hours ago.)
sorry ran out of room in last post as i was saying she says what we are to her (like friends,best friends,etc.) so when she says my name she says im her best friend and the other 4 of my friends are only regular friends as she says im her best friend she starts holding my hands and looked real innocent (i could tell because i looked into her eyes ) my friends started to laugh at me before i looked up so i slowly slide my hands out and leaves 2 days later she told me "Eye of the tiger" i tell my

Nicholas from New York: (16 days 8 hours ago.)
ran out of room again as i was saying i told my friends at lunch they called me slow (im sure she didnt mean the song) she also pushed me in the hallway and i think i saw her wink as well but had an upset or annoyed expresion on her face..
mind telling me if she might have a crush on me ? ( i am on of her friends as you have read there is alot more but im using psp so im tired and i think i have a crush on her) we are 1grade apart im in 7th i also hang out with her friend who i annoy and get hit 4 it

Nicholas from New York: (15 days 18 hours ago.)
She is in 8th grade....i ran out of room again
( i may be 12 but i know alot of adult things)

Gowen1635 from Las Vegas: (13 days 9 hours ago.)
OK im having some trouble here. There is this girl i see on a regular basis in band class. This is the only period i have with her. We both are very shy people and i always take constant glances at her. Every know and then she will look my way, but that is someone passed by me, but i always see her I on me when this happens. Then she normally looks away. Some times when the band teacher is busy with something she will move next to her friend. She will then glance at me a little more than usual. The only questions she asks me questions like, "what note is this?" or "Did you hear what the teacher said?" Every time I talk to her she smiles, but she does that often when other people talk to her.One time during out bands trip to hawaii she always kept looking my way, while i look at her. She was always with a group of friends and she when she looks my way she will have a smile on her face, but more like a laughter kind of smile. When she sits near me everyday in class she always plays with her hair, like checking if she has split ends. I really do have a crush on this girl, but im only 30% sure that she has an attractions to me. I am really disoriented. What do you guys think? She is a shy girl by the way.

Gowen1635 from Las Vegas: (13 days 9 hours ago.)
OK im having some trouble here. There is this girl i see on a regular basis in band class. This is the only period i have with her. We both are very shy people and i always take constant glances at her. Every know and then she will look my way, but that is someone passed by me, but i always see her I on me when this happens. Then she normally looks away. Some times when the band teacher is busy with something she will move next to her friend. She will then glance at me a little more than usual. The only questions she asks me questions like, "what note is this?" or "Did you hear what the teacher said?" Every time I talk to her she smiles, but she does that often when other people talk to her.One time during out bands trip to hawaii she always kept looking my way, while i look at her. She was always with a group of friends and she when she looks my way she will have a smile on her face, but more like a laughter kind of smile. When she sits near me everyday in class she always plays with her hair, like checking if she has split ends. I really do have a crush on this girl, but im only 30% sure that she has an attractions to me. I am really disoriented. What do you guys think? She is a shy girl by the way.

Aziko: (7 days 2 hours ago.)
I am 10 years old and I........

Nicholas from New York: (6 days 12 hours ago.)
Gonna tell us?

Charizard from T/wmdaj.: (10 hours 19 minutes ago.)
dude one girl im kinda shy

Charizard from T/wmdaj.: (10 hours 19 minutes ago.)
dude one girl im kinda shy


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